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Old 04-22-2008, 10:46 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Default Re: Still not over it

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Originally Posted by swedish View Post
True Blue,

I think the hardest part for me is that my husband has also been very open about work discussions, etc. and has really made a tremendous effort in rebuilding my trust, so part of me is reluctant to tell him when things bother me because I don't want him to stop telling me things, but I also don't want to feel any more hurt than I already have. So far, he's been really understanding but sometimes I wonder if he'll tire of it and stop telling me things just to avoid these stressful conversations.
Communication is so important, please tell him that you thank him for being honest but x still rubs you the wrong way. He can't fix a problem he doesn't know about.

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