| | Re: Need help with EA, "space"
1) It's not about controlling her or telling her what she can or can't do. It's about your boundaries and what you are and are not willing to accept from her. If she can't respect your boundaries, then wish her well and end it. Stop allowing the disrespect of her carrying on with OM in your home.
2) The ring is part of the contract of her agreeing to marry you. If she leaves, get the ring back. Don't let her leave with it or you'll end up having to sue her to get the value. And as a rule, it's not good to sue people you've slept with.
3) And lastly, sorry to say, but a bf/gf thing (no matter how serious, is not being married. It's an audition for the real thing. She has failed her audition and got you scrambling to fix this. UGH, MAN the F*** UP. That is your only hope. With her, and in life.