my husband and i have been married for almost 9 years now...we have 3 children...everything has been running so smoothly until now. he started being really miserable towards me. we started fighting about his attitude towards me, and his lack of respect for my feelings...i FINALLY made him break down and give me a clue into his head...he is now not sure if he wants to be married to me. he's not sure what he wants. other than me knowing this in my head, no one would be able to tell because we still put on the front around people. i'm so scared about what is going to happen...i don't know how much longer i can deal with him telling me he doesn't know why he feels this way. he says he loves me and cares about our marriage and is willing to go to councelling, but what if it doesn't work...no one can make him change his feelings...and i don't know what to do...does any one have any advice?