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stevewsc · 08-23-2007, 01:37 PM

well on monday my step son came down tot neibors to see if his son was home. he wasnt and her jumped up in the back of the truck with me. gaveme a hug and kiss and we talked a little. i gave him my cell number and told him to call whenever he wanted. then he left. he never called that night and his nanna was keeping him and haily at the house for the night. so i called tuesday night cause they were starting school on wed. well jennifer answered. i said let me speak to the kids please. she said dont you call here demanding things. i said look i have nothing to say to you i just want to speak to my children. she said first of all you only have one child here. second of all you told my parents i was drinking so i dont hink i will let you talk to them and hung up on me. well i called her sister and ran my mouth to her out of anger. she hangs up with me and 2 minutes later the wife calls and says i am sorry i should have let you talk to haily. i said jennifer the only reason you called back is because amanda just called you and told you i was going to write it down in my log that you wouldnt let me speak to them. she cussed me out and hungup on me. well i called back at 650am wed. morning so i could talk to them before school. she answed i said jennifer. she hungup on me. so at 3pm i text her and asked if i could get the kids. she said just haily and i will pick her up at 6pm. so i called to findout where she was going to pick them up. she said well i was going to pick them up at your house but i am not coming there. she said meet me at exxon. no wait, and i could hear her mother talking in the backround. i said jennifer make up your own mind and quit listening to your mother. she said just bring her here at seven. so i get to daycare and tyler is standing in the door window waving at me. i walk in and he is all over me. he said where we going today? what we gonna do? like bouncing around. i changed the subject and asked him and her about school and then i went into the office with the daycare owner. i asked cathy what i should say to him. she said tell him you want to take him but momma wont let you that way he understands its not you. she said well you know what. she said call her right now and tell her to explain to him why he cant go. well i did and she cused me out and said leave him there i will be there in a little. well i called tyler into the office just me and him. well he allready had his bookbag on and ready to leave. i said take your bag off and come in here. he sat down and i closed the door. we talked about school and i asked if he was going to play football and he said yes and started crying. i said son you know i love you and he shook his head and he climbed up in the chair with me and squeezed me so hard. me and him were both crying. i said do you want to go for a walk? he said yes. well we went outside and we walked to the picinic table. i reached it and turned around and he didnt make it halfway. he just broke down. i got him over to the table and on my lap. i said tyler you know i love you and you know i want to take you everytime i can. he said yes and i just want you to come home. he said i miss you so much and i dont have anyone to play with. i said yes you do you have your mother. he said no she doesnt play with me. he said i love you and hugged me again. i said why didnt you call me the other night? he said i lost your number and when i told nanna i wanted to talk to you she said i couldnt call you. i said well when you get to the store you ask you momma and your nanna why you cant see me anymore. i said tyler it isnt me and its not your fault. well he was crying on my shoulder and cathy came out and said his mother is here. we walked in both still sniffling and tyler was still crying. she walked out with him crying like she didnt have a care in the world. well i came home and wrote one last letter telling her that i know she is mad at me. but to take him away from me is going to hurt him more than anyone. and that if she could see what she is doing to our family that she would understand. well long story short she wouldnt take it. she said i am done with the letters. well she just called my phone and its is 430pm here. she has to go to school tonight from 6-9 so i would be willing to bet she wanted to know if i could keep both of them till she got out. i did answer because i refused to be put through what i was yesterday only to used today. i am not putting up with it anymore. i am going to tighten my chin strap up now. ohh and i went to the doctor and got some anti-depres. meds. i wish i would have went a month ago and might not have lost 25lbs. you know sooner or later she will figure out that the only love this guy has for her is bedroom love. and she will realize that i was one who truely loved her. i just dont know. i dont know if i could consider us now that she has done all this to me.

08-23-2007, 01:37 PM	#48 (permalink)
stevewsc Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: rockhill, sc Posts: 41	Re: can you help me save my marriage well on monday my step son came down tot neibors to see if his son was home. he wasnt and her jumped up in the back of the truck with me. gaveme a hug and kiss and we talked a little. i gave him my cell number and told him to call whenever he wanted. then he left. he never called that night and his nanna was keeping him and haily at the house for the night. so i called tuesday night cause they were starting school on wed. well jennifer answered. i said let me speak to the kids please. she said dont you call here demanding things. i said look i have nothing to say to you i just want to speak to my children. she said first of all you only have one child here. second of all you told my parents i was drinking so i dont hink i will let you talk to them and hung up on me. well i called her sister and ran my mouth to her out of anger. she hangs up with me and 2 minutes later the wife calls and says i am sorry i should have let you talk to haily. i said jennifer the only reason you called back is because amanda just called you and told you i was going to write it down in my log that you wouldnt let me speak to them. she cussed me out and hungup on me. well i called back at 650am wed. morning so i could talk to them before school. she answed i said jennifer. she hungup on me. so at 3pm i text her and asked if i could get the kids. she said just haily and i will pick her up at 6pm. so i called to findout where she was going to pick them up. she said well i was going to pick them up at your house but i am not coming there. she said meet me at exxon. no wait, and i could hear her mother talking in the backround. i said jennifer make up your own mind and quit listening to your mother. she said just bring her here at seven. so i get to daycare and tyler is standing in the door window waving at me. i walk in and he is all over me. he said where we going today? what we gonna do? like bouncing around. i changed the subject and asked him and her about school and then i went into the office with the daycare owner. i asked cathy what i should say to him. she said tell him you want to take him but momma wont let you that way he understands its not you. she said well you know what. she said call her right now and tell her to explain to him why he cant go. well i did and she cused me out and said leave him there i will be there in a little. well i called tyler into the office just me and him. well he allready had his bookbag on and ready to leave. i said take your bag off and come in here. he sat down and i closed the door. we talked about school and i asked if he was going to play football and he said yes and started crying. i said son you know i love you and he shook his head and he climbed up in the chair with me and squeezed me so hard. me and him were both crying. i said do you want to go for a walk? he said yes. well we went outside and we walked to the picinic table. i reached it and turned around and he didnt make it halfway. he just broke down. i got him over to the table and on my lap. i said tyler you know i love you and you know i want to take you everytime i can. he said yes and i just want you to come home. he said i miss you so much and i dont have anyone to play with. i said yes you do you have your mother. he said no she doesnt play with me. he said i love you and hugged me again. i said why didnt you call me the other night? he said i lost your number and when i told nanna i wanted to talk to you she said i couldnt call you. i said well when you get to the store you ask you momma and your nanna why you cant see me anymore. i said tyler it isnt me and its not your fault. well he was crying on my shoulder and cathy came out and said his mother is here. we walked in both still sniffling and tyler was still crying. she walked out with him crying like she didnt have a care in the world. well i came home and wrote one last letter telling her that i know she is mad at me. but to take him away from me is going to hurt him more than anyone. and that if she could see what she is doing to our family that she would understand. well long story short she wouldnt take it. she said i am done with the letters. well she just called my phone and its is 430pm here. she has to go to school tonight from 6-9 so i would be willing to bet she wanted to know if i could keep both of them till she got out. i did answer because i refused to be put through what i was yesterday only to used today. i am not putting up with it anymore. i am going to tighten my chin strap up now. ohh and i went to the doctor and got some anti-depres. meds. i wish i would have went a month ago and might not have lost 25lbs. you know sooner or later she will figure out that the only love this guy has for her is bedroom love. and she will realize that i was one who truely loved her. i just dont know. i dont know if i could consider us now that she has done all this to me.