Originally Posted by angelpixie
Oh, from what you said, Otter, I realize that my post may have been confusing (that comes from thinking everyone already knows what's going on in your own head, LOL). My comment about my 20s was more to illustrate why I got together with someone younger in the first place. I am actually in my mid 40s. So, that's where I wonder if the cougar thing comes in. I would not think 36 would be stodgy at all, and if a guy that age had kids, they'd be more likely to be the same age as mine, too.
Sorry if I misunderstood. But yeah, the cougar thing might come up if your mid 40's and your boyfriend is a real boy lol....You might have to stodgy him up a little bit so he passes the first glance test from your friends.... (I'm teasing. And yes, this guy has some kids since you brought it up. 4,8,11)
I'm scared to death of dating to be honest. I've snuck out the sites and looked and that's about all I did. But, sooner or later I'll have to jump back in there....hopefully sooner rather than later.