swedish

Draconis & True Blue, thanks. I do tell him I appreciate how honest he's been with me and that I know it's hard for him. I don't even know how to be in attack mode...I just withdraw and have trouble speaking at all when I'm upset. This is something I will always struggle with and need to work on. He is also very quiet, so we understand each other but it's also been horrible as far as the importance of communication in a marriage goes. It's not natural for him to tell me about his day, but he has been working at that also. I don't know that there's anything he can fix. As a couple, we have become more close than either of us has ever been with anyone and are having fun together. If I bring up the subject of OW...if she has talked to him at work, etc. it's usually yes she came in my office and asked if she could have a diet coke..etc. He is very short with her and is annoyed when she talks to him at all (I think because he knows he will eventually talk to me and may upset me etc) so I don't really expect him to do anything different...just hoping one of them will leave the company at some point so I don't have to think about it anymore.