| | Re: The past coming back to bite me in the butt?
How old is your kid? I think its best he hear it from you then someone else, its best to deal with it now then later. When he gets older, he may realize things and begin to wonder. You and your husband should sit down with him and talk and just come clean, he maybe mad and hurt for a little while, but Im sure he will come to realize that you done what you thought was best for him. My sister was done this way, she doesnt know her father, the only father she knows is my dad, hes on her birth certificate, her mom and my dad sat down with her and explained everything to her, now that shes older, shes curious as to who her biological father is, and this may very well happen with your child. Wish you the best of luck.