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Well that didn't go so good, yelled at about boundaries, etc.
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Excellent Bet the word ""controlling" came up.
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Said we would have had a chance until me coming back last night.
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You went home. great. She means by that is that she doesn't want you around to spoil her limitless and continuous communication with the OM
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She doesn't know this but I did find out she booked a flight to see the guy so I really didn't care that I was prob doing more harm than good in her eyes
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She booked a flight.. Okay this sounds like she has made her mind up. When she did that she assumed she would be coming home afterwards. Make it clear that it won't be an option if she leaves.
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I told her I knew, knew his name everything and she still denies.
I've never known her to lie but everything out of her mouth these days is a lie, you would think they would just own up to it.
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You know when she is lying. Her lips are moving. She will look you dead in the eye when she does this. Just keep repeating that you know, and there is no point in lying. Do this calmly.
If you have joint finances. Separate them NOW. She will burn through cash faster than you will believe.
The engagement is off. Get the ring back before she leaves to see her new lover.
I am so sorry about this. Stay with us. It is going to be rough.
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I'm just going to cut her loose, get my stuff back. She can't afford her own cell phone so maybe he'll get her one. Think I might wait until close to the weekend of the trip before I turn it off though.
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She will have to afford her own everything. That is the deal.
You can not be in a relationship with two people. She seems to think you can at the moment.
