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carmaenforcer · 04-23-2008, 03:49 PM

Listen hazzel22 I wish I could remember where exactly I read it (somewhere in this forum) but there was a lady that posted how sad she was that her man told her he didn't love her anymore because of her having neglecting him for 16 years.
It's probably too late for her to reverse the damage done and now that she's done being selfish and uncaring she wishes she could go back in time, but no one can go back in time.

I would just hope that my harsh words, trying to champion your mans side, can help you to admit or at least that he is a victim and an unwilling participant in this mess (regardless of the cause) and might not appreciate it and someday grow to resent you or worse.

Hate me if you wish, but be honest with yourself if you really hope for mutual happiness in your relationship.

Like someone else said, "a relationship is about two people" and just because you are the one with the possible depression or whatever, the other half of your relationship is suffering too and by your hand. I know women would like it if sex wasn't that big of a deal, but it is a bigger deal than even we might want to admit.

04-23-2008, 03:49 PM	#20 (permalink)
carmaenforcer Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 148	Re: Repulsed Listen hazzel22 I wish I could remember where exactly I read it (somewhere in this forum) but there was a lady that posted how sad she was that her man told her he didn't love her anymore because of her having neglecting him for 16 years. It's probably too late for her to reverse the damage done and now that she's done being selfish and uncaring she wishes she could go back in time, but no one can go back in time. I would just hope that my harsh words, trying to champion your mans side, can help you to admit or at least that he is a victim and an unwilling participant in this mess (regardless of the cause) and might not appreciate it and someday grow to resent you or worse. Hate me if you wish, but be honest with yourself if you really hope for mutual happiness in your relationship. Like someone else said, "a relationship is about two people" and just because you are the one with the possible depression or whatever, the other half of your relationship is suffering too and by your hand. I know women would like it if sex wasn't that big of a deal, but it is a bigger deal than even we might want to admit.