Originally Posted by carmaenforcer

I think it's great that you decided to stop cheating on your man and that you fessed up.

I just want you too know that your story just helped me with a bit of a moral conflict I've had about something that I practice in my own relationship.

You see, like your husband, I too have a secret that my wife doesn't know about. I've always believed that since some day I will have to probably hear a confession like the one your husband got myself, that it might not be a bad idea for me to have something to bring to the table as well, when the time finally comes. After all, If we've both been bad she can't get mad and how stupid would I feel if the whole time I was the only one being true to our relationship or the only one telling the truth. It's easier to forgive when you need to ask for forgiveness too, right.

I'm glad to see that my theory is sound, two wrongs do sometimes make a right.

I'm glad to hear that your man is getting help for his substance abuse issues and that your test came back negative.

I truly wish you both the best of luck and a long, happy and healthy rest of your relationship together.