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shane33 · 04-23-2008, 10:45 PM

I think that as men we need to learn to shut up and listen to our wives when they start to vent they do not want to hear our opinon or a way to fix it or make it better sometimes they just want a sounding board so guys just sit there and really listen don't defend yourself if you are being attacked just suck it up and swallow your pride let her calm down then go discuse it calmly with her it will work out better in the long run i have been working on these skills and i have to say she is responding very well. Don't get me wrong they do want to hear your thoght and opion but guys use you heads pick the right times to give it and just listen

04-23-2008, 10:45 PM	#13 (permalink)
shane33 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 21	Re: Is it possible to fall in love again? I think that as men we need to learn to shut up and listen to our wives when they start to vent they do not want to hear our opinon or a way to fix it or make it better sometimes they just want a sounding board so guys just sit there and really listen don't defend yourself if you are being attacked just suck it up and swallow your pride let her calm down then go discuse it calmly with her it will work out better in the long run i have been working on these skills and i have to say she is responding very well. Don't get me wrong they do want to hear your thoght and opion but guys use you heads pick the right times to give it and just listen