| | Re: Need Guidance With Exposure and Execution of 180
It depends on what you want. If you're looking for an excuse to divorce her, then let it go physical and then walk away. Otherwise, I would try to stop it.
Just confront her with the lingerie. Tell her that you're obviously worried about her commitment to the marriage. That you saw the lingerie bag. The lingerie is obviously not for you. And now, with her overnight trip, it looks like she's making a date.
She'll probably deny it. But, you just keep saying that it looks bad. If she wants to prove her loyalty, then tell her to hand over her unlocked phone immediately.