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Originally Posted by Jamison  The first thing you all will need to do is to get to the root of WHY he has always been emotionally distant to begin with. |
HIs Emotionally distant father that left when he was 13 to start a new family. Never said I love you, never called, etc. Although as of last week his father did call crying, said "I love you" and apologized for being a bad father.
Fantasizing about other men has gone on for years. To be honest, I thought it was normal! I thought that it was a biological thing, like "monogamy is hard, and unnatural, fantasies are healthy".
While I see that statement might be somewhat true, I now know that it's a bad sign that I never fantasize about H. He should be in there sometimes! I just don't see him that way.
