Originally Posted by Jamison
The first thing you all will need to do is to get to the root of WHY he has always been emotionally distant to begin with.
HIs Emotionally distant father that left when he was 13 to start a new family. Never said I love you, never called, etc. Although as of last week his father did call crying, said "I love you" and apologized for being a bad father.
Fantasizing about other men has gone on for years. To be honest, I thought it was normal! I thought that it was a biological thing, like "monogamy is hard, and unnatural, fantasies are healthy".
While I see that statement might be somewhat true, I now know that it's a bad sign that I never fantasize about H. He should be in there sometimes! I just don't see him that way.