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believer · 04-24-2008, 08:59 PM

Hey E stars - glad we are on the same page. not sure if we can communicate directly on each of situations? maybe we can see how similar our situations are & at what stage of the process we are at (anger, denial, acceptance, etc).
I have worked through many of these at this stage & now need to decide what direction I want to go with my marriage. Up until recently - my husband was in the drivers seat because I was not willing to admit to him or myself that I was not happy. I wanted him to stay with me & was so afraid he's choose the other woman - that I just continued "as is" & tried to pretend things were normal.
Let me know what's your situation & if we can email directly - would love to get someone else's perspective on similar issues. I am new to this online chat thing - so don't know all the technicalities of using this system.
Hope to hear back from you.

04-24-2008, 08:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
believer Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 65	Re: Trying to Work it Out Hey E stars - glad we are on the same page. not sure if we can communicate directly on each of situations? maybe we can see how similar our situations are & at what stage of the process we are at (anger, denial, acceptance, etc). I have worked through many of these at this stage & now need to decide what direction I want to go with my marriage. Up until recently - my husband was in the drivers seat because I was not willing to admit to him or myself that I was not happy. I wanted him to stay with me & was so afraid he's choose the other woman - that I just continued "as is" & tried to pretend things were normal. Let me know what's your situation & if we can email directly - would love to get someone else's perspective on similar issues. I am new to this online chat thing - so don't know all the technicalities of using this system. Hope to hear back from you.