Originally Posted by donders
Why did you decide to throw caution to the wind and do something you know is going to really piss her off and throw a relatively peaceful divorce settlement out the window?
I'll tell you why. Because she can't win. It may seem petty and immature, but screw that. She wants to grab some d*ck someplace else. It is not going to be free and easy.
If there was no one outside the marriage, I'd say sure, let us move on. But that isn't the case here.