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Halien, this thread is not an attempt to start a witch hunt. It's just certain few threads here suddenly attracted a number of very vocal and opinionated posters, seemingly coming out of nowhere and not affected by infidelity in any way.

All people are free to voice their opinions, but those who never suffered from it are best advised to be extra considerate before jumping the gun.

You were exposed to infidelity issues by proxy of your father, so are clearly much less naive about it than I was a year ago (and perhaps now, as my views stem from a one-case study).

There's often plenty of disagreement among posters already, and that's normal. Different folks come from different situations and maybe more helpful in cases they can relate to. For instance, I don't post often to the threads by betrayed women, not from lack of sympathy but because I don't quite clearly understand what options a woman in this situation has. However they do get great advice from other posters whose experiences were close.