| | Re: Fallout
Slater, be sure to tell her that the things she did with him and didn't do with you, defined her. They say everything about her and nothing about you. You asked her to do those things out of love and a sense of adventure in your marriage. She gave it to him that way out of obligation (because she had no respect for herself. ie she was already treating herself like *****, why should he treat her any different). The difference......he used her....you loved her. Ask her which way made her feel better about herself?