Originally Posted by bronwen
Thank you very much. I'm am absolutely overwhelmed by the support I have had from the lovely people on this forum. I haven't told anyone about what happened because I find it so humiliating -
especially at my age.
I find myself looking at couples in the street and thinking "I wonder if he's done this to her and if not then why not".
I'm sticking with the 180 and learning something new every day.
Hi Bromwen. You sound like a lovely person.
I never told anyone about my wife's EA either because of feeling the same way. Yes, humiliation probably sums it up. But, in hindsight, I'm glad now that I didn't.
And yes, every couple I saw, I asked myself, "Hmmmm, I wonder if anything has gone on there."
All part of it, unfortunately. However, you're certainly dealing with it much better than many of us here did in our situations.
All the best,