swedish

I agree with Amp. I think she would benefit from counseling on her own to work through her depression issues. I never went on meds, but talking with a counselor helped me a great deal to sort out my feelings and to figure out what really makes me happy. For me, it was putting my energy into things I love (and people) and being more open with my husband about my feelings. That was very hard for me but I now feel more loved and connected to him then I ever have. I think we all go through points in our lives where we re-evaluate where we are at, what we want, etc. and sometimes make some bad choices as a result, but it's possible to make it through and you are doing all of the right things to support her Sometimes one partner needs to carry the weight of the other for a while, as hard as it is to do & you are doing just that..many cannot..best of luck to you both.