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no1.daddy2kids · 07-28-2009, 09:00 PM

Thanks for the words. Yes, I do pray every day and night for myself, for us and for her. Actually, for all three no matter how things turn out, as any way it goes, it is not going to be easy.

As far as the affair items go, she says that there is just a friendship, nothing more, although they are planning a future. I believe her that there is nothing physical going on, however I too feel this is an affair. It is just an emotional one. The guy is a spiritual advisor and counselor and chaplain at the hospice near us. She said she was called to do this volunteering, and thinks that he is the reason. I think that she is drawn to him because her dad passed away a few years ago and she is still having a tough time with that. Obviously he is able to counsel with this, and he is going thru a 2nd divorce with the same woman. So they do have a few things in common. However, to throw everything away, tear apart a family and go through all this after a month....

I only wish that I could have come to my realizations and learning a couple months earlier. Things could be much better by now. I guess if nothing else, I am more ready to be the one for someone else.

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no1.daddy2kids Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 411	Re: Long drawn out unhappy Thanks for the words. Yes, I do pray every day and night for myself, for us and for her. Actually, for all three no matter how things turn out, as any way it goes, it is not going to be easy. As far as the affair items go, she says that there is just a friendship, nothing more, although they are planning a future. I believe her that there is nothing physical going on, however I too feel this is an affair. It is just an emotional one. The guy is a spiritual advisor and counselor and chaplain at the hospice near us. She said she was called to do this volunteering, and thinks that he is the reason. I think that she is drawn to him because her dad passed away a few years ago and she is still having a tough time with that. Obviously he is able to counsel with this, and he is going thru a 2nd divorce with the same woman. So they do have a few things in common. However, to throw everything away, tear apart a family and go through all this after a month.... I only wish that I could have come to my realizations and learning a couple months earlier. Things could be much better by now. I guess if nothing else, I am more ready to be the one for someone else.