Originally Posted by Morenito0211
So an update on my story, my fiancee and I have been doing so good and had been happy for the past year, got our rings and set a new date for our wedding...now, we both have good jobs, we live confortable but do not own a home so we been talking for a while about saving money, moving to a smaller place and cheaper rent to save money, so about a month ago she wanted to get a new job and applied for one and I was ok with it...until I found out that the OM works there, so I told her how I felt about it and that she needed to look elsewhere, she was ok with it but she went behing my back and pushed for the position and even when to an interview without telling me, and just kept saying to me that she wasn't going to take the job, she got offered the job and I told her about my trust issues and that working with someone she cheated on me with will hurt our relationship and more than likelly end it, she said she wasn't going to take it and would turn it down but I just found out that she went to the office and got a work contract and is taking the job...knowing that it would hurt me for her to work with the OM and that this will end our relationship she still taking the job...I don't know what to make of this...am I wrong??
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You still belive that she care for your feelings...
work with the OM and that this will end our relationship...REALLY? You have good humor sense.......
am I wrong?? Yes you are wrong, why you want to disturb the happiness and excitement she have with OM, your begging make her annoyed, stop that.
Which part of the previous advice you got from here made you the perfect doormat? I didn't see any one advising you to become a better doormat, but all advised you to man up and take control of your life, which you couldnt. Now what more should we say? Do you want us to repeat the same?
Some people will never learn the lessons...............