| | Re: she won't shave her legs
Shaving in the shower with plain old water can be done in a matter of 3 minutes. She's doing this on purpose. If she can brushe her teeth or make a pot of coffee, she can shave her legs.
IMO her not shaving, ESPECIALLY since she knows how you feel about it, is her telling you to GTF away from her. She's sending you a sign, loud and clear.
I like the idea of handing her a razor. Hopefully the reasons why she doesn't want you touching her will come out in counseling. Good luck to you.