Originally Posted by sigma1299
Has your H communicated with the OW since the letter?
Regarding the accusation of other women. Trust your instinct on this. It is entirely plausible that the OW told you that hoping you'd throw your H out and clear the way for the two of them to sail off into the sunset. People in affair fog do think this way. Conversely, how plausible is it that your H is carrying on with every wife in the neighborhood? Vs. the OW just watched one too many episodes of Desperate House Wives? Both are possible, it's a tough spot, just try to listen to your instinct.
H has not been in contact with OW since the letter. The A had ended and I think the letter shook her. It's one thing to think you got away with something and find out that isn't case now.
My instincts told me he was having an A. Plus I knew who it was with. I am pissed off it took me so long to find what I was looking for to prove it. I don't think it is plausible he is carrying on with these other wives. It makes no sense on so many levels. However, I am not a fool and will continue to be very aware of his actions and that of the neighbors What troubles me is her accusation feels like D Day again. This is going to sound so Polly Anna but her accusation wasn't very nice and very cruel. She clearly wanted to hurt me and in turn hurt him. I couldn't care less that she wanted to hurt him. But what the hell? What did I do to her? Geesh. (you can tell I am a newbie)
Thanks so much for your reply. I am trusting my instincts. At least they are intact.