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Originally Posted by 3leafclover  Oh, I haven't tried this one yet. I love new roleplays. I wonder where I can find a prairie dress and a bonnet.
I wonder how come there are so many cases in which sexual incompatibility isn't discovered until after marriage. I'm sure it's probably a mix of different factors. This is why I think lots of sex before marriage is a great idea for adults. |
I love the prairie dress.
The post marital sexual incompatibility seems to be a problem with expectation. Our expectations of what a spouse should be seems, in many ways, to be unrealistic to me.
Some Women want a man who can make her life financially secure which is difficuot in this economy. Some women are unrealistic in tyeir expectations and not so nice when they are not forthcoming.
Some Men want a sexually uninhibited woman who has had few or no partners and who has the desire to please him sexuallly and exclusivly.
The sexual requirements for women are specific and are not neccessarily gear to her specific likes and dislikes. She has to sublimate her personal preferences to be a successful woman which means attractive to men.
The pressure to fit the mold of a woman worth being loved is difficult for some woman to sustain. They are able to do it for a while but maturity and self assurance may change what they want to do. Men don't react to these changes very well.
. I don't think most woman present the required persona in an attempt to deceive but to please.
