| | Re: Long drawn out unhappy
Right now I am thinking of stepping aside and letting what happens happens. I feel like the more I pursue this to reconsiliation, the further she gets from me. I have been working on the little things in myself that always get to her, and rightfully so. I got my hair cut without her asking. I have lost about 15lbs since the beginning of the year and dropped 6 inches off my waist. I never got new clothes, till this week. I am taking more time for the kids and the house. Although I feel like I am abandoning her more, I really feel like this is going to flop, as they have about 20 hrs of phone conversation and at best a dozen get togethers. How can that be the basis of a life together? Maybe by then she will realize that we should be working together, and not against each other.