Originally Posted by Fool-me-twice
I know he watches porn ALOT! Sometimes he'll watch it when we're sitting in the same room with the kids - the kids can't see the computer at all, but there's just something CREEPY about that to me. He thinks it's his own little secret, but everyone has him figured out. Two of the boys went with him for a weekend to the lakes, his son called me and said they saw 6 DVDs stashed in his sons car.
I don't have much advice for you, but counseling was my first thought. Would he be willing to go to marriage counseling for this? This to me does seem like a deal breaker for me, and for me at this point, it would be the porn has to go or our marriage is over. That's just how I would feel about it, it seems to be creating a mess of problems for your marriage and your children. Your H watching porn in the same room as your children or even taking a stash of porn on a lake trip for his kids is pretty gross IMO and borders on sex offending quite frankly and your H needs help big time. There is a time and place for porn, the family room with the family present is not one of them, or a lake trip with your children is not one of them. But again, these are just my feelings on it.
I wish you luck!