Talk About Marriage - View Single Post

Liza · 04-27-2008, 12:37 PM

You did not mention your husband age, is he a little older than you? What has the relationship been like the last 14 years, was it always a case where he told you what to do and you obeyed?

It is really hard when there are two adults living together in a relationship and only one needs to ask the other "permission" to do things. The permission asker will after a while start to feel subdued and undervalued.

I suggest you try or talk to your husband, without arguing or ask someone you both respect to talk to both of you.

04-27-2008, 12:37 PM	#3 (permalink)
Liza Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 86	Re: Do I need permisson? You did not mention your husband age, is he a little older than you? What has the relationship been like the last 14 years, was it always a case where he told you what to do and you obeyed? It is really hard when there are two adults living together in a relationship and only one needs to ask the other "permission" to do things. The permission asker will after a while start to feel subdued and undervalued. I suggest you try or talk to your husband, without arguing or ask someone you both respect to talk to both of you.