| | Re: I feel Alienated
It's perfectly natural for you to start looking at yourself and assigning blame to yourself. But I'll bet she wasn't perfect in your marriage either. And you chose not to cheat.
While it's always good to take an honest inventory of yourself, you come off in your posts as being sullen, whiney, "woe is me." That's not attractive to your wife. You need to become firm, confident, a guy who's willing to stand up for your marriage, and not tolerate another man in your marriage.
Again for the umpteenth time, stop with the blame tmiller stuff, and find out what's going on. Phone records, texts, emails, VAR, all that stuff.