| | Re: Ladies, a question...Does good sex make you hornier?
Originally Posted by Browncoat
That is correct, no personal sense of value from the act at all. If we stopped all sex altogether, other than it bothering me... I doubt it would bother her.
That is her motivation for sex is driven purely by my need for it, and her knowledge of my need.
She has had amazing orgasms... makes no difference to her, it's not worth the effort in and of itself.
I wish I could offer a more positive view. The theory has it that as you gain competence, autonomy and relatedness through participation, you should become increasingly internally (intrinsically) motivated, to do something just because you like it.
Can you rokker Romani chib, pal?
Aye, aye, brother!
I don't know what you say, brother.
Then you don't jin Romani chib...