| | Re: posting pictures on web
Well, we all know that opinions are like a**holes...everyone has one and as long as it's attached to a attractive FEMALE butt, I want to see.
I can understand why a lot of women would be put off by this, especially if they are having issues in their own lives where the husband looks at or uses porn...that can be painful. No man should cause his lady to feel low self-worth...
Maybe that comes down to the age old question...why does a man want to look at porn or other women with lust in his eyes when he has a beautiful wife that is willing to and has shared her all with him?
Variety, fantasy, addiction, illness...though I'm not too keen on the last two because viewing and abusing porn is a choice, not a disease. But for the majority of men...it's an animalistic tendency that overrides their sensibility and they don't have the clarity that is needed to see how that urge or compulsion affects their spouse or GF.
Everything we do, can do, might do, will do...doo-doo...has the capability and ability to hurt someone, somewhere. Can't live life worrying about what consequences will be for someone because you said something out loud, made a gesture, a noise, a comment...whatever...if that were the case, then no one could or would ever leave the house.
Protect, take care of and love the people who are around you, who you need and who need you. They are what matter the most...
And if someone wants to post dirty pictures of his wife on a website for millions of people to see...then he can do so...as long as she has given him permission. If it spices up their love life and keeps it fresh and interesting...good for them. We all need some variety in life and in our relationships...some people find it by having a bottle of wine, a old movie and making love by the fireplace...others find it by letting others see their nakedness.