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Browncoat · 05-16-2012, 12:59 PM

You can not go on like this forever. Communication is the life's blood of a marriage.

You have every right to put up reasonable boundaries in the marriage (like letting you sleep when you are exhausted and not forcing his way onto you). He needs to respect those boundaries... and well frankly grow up a bit. He seems like he's throwing an adult temper tantrum if he doesn't get his way.

Tell him you two need to go to counselling. If he refuses, well then go to IC for your own sanity... though given the situation it really is ideal if you both got IC (and some couples therapy together) from the same counselor.

05-16-2012, 12:59 PM	#5 (permalink)
Browncoat Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 2,188	Re: Silent Treatment...beginning of the end? You can not go on like this forever. Communication is the life's blood of a marriage. You have every right to put up reasonable boundaries in the marriage (like letting you sleep when you are exhausted and not forcing his way onto you). He needs to respect those boundaries... and well frankly grow up a bit. He seems like he's throwing an adult temper tantrum if he doesn't get his way. Tell him you two need to go to counselling. If he refuses, well then go to IC for your own sanity... though given the situation it really is ideal if you both got IC (and some couples therapy together) from the same counselor.