Originally Posted by WillK
Let me be clear - it is not that I haven't considered all of that. I have. I just want the discussion focussed on my specific question. Whether I speak with OM is my question because it is an area where I am uncertain about how to deal with the situation. Everything else, I am not asking about because I don't have uncertainty about dealing with it.
No do not speak to the Om because you have pretty good reason to think he`s doing "something" with your wife.
What motivation does he have to even be sincere about anything with you?
What motivation might he have to lie?
How would you know?
Anything you hear from the OM is just a possible emotional grenade.
It won`t help you at all.