Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Handling a wife's emotional affair or maybe the EA of my wife's friend toward my wife

Toffer · 05-16-2012, 01:45 PM

Iamaga,

Most times I see eye to eye with you and it's not that I really disagree with your last few posts (she may not be ready to start a physical affair) but the truth of the matter is that even the OP recognizes the fact that she is CURRENTLY in an EA! Choosing to ignore that and the warning signs is somewhat short sighted.

You're right though, he shouldn't waste time talking to the OM. He should be monitoring his wife's activities to put this issue to rest.

I would be please as punch if he were to come back here in a few weeks time and tell me what an Ahole I am for having suggested that she was up to something because he has irrefutable proof she isn't. I would be happier than all get out to eat my words but from everything he's told us so far, I am having a real hard time believing she isn't up to something (or at the very least, entertaining the thoughts!)

05-16-2012, 01:45 PM	#20 (permalink)
Toffer Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: East Coast Posts: 2,810	Re: Handling a wife's emotional affair or maybe the EA of my wife's friend toward my Iamaga, Most times I see eye to eye with you and it's not that I really disagree with your last few posts (she may not be ready to start a physical affair) but the truth of the matter is that even the OP recognizes the fact that she is CURRENTLY in an EA! Choosing to ignore that and the warning signs is somewhat short sighted. You're right though, he shouldn't waste time talking to the OM. He should be monitoring his wife's activities to put this issue to rest. I would be please as punch if he were to come back here in a few weeks time and tell me what an Ahole I am for having suggested that she was up to something because he has irrefutable proof she isn't. I would be happier than all get out to eat my words but from everything he's told us so far, I am having a real hard time believing she isn't up to something (or at the very least, entertaining the thoughts!)