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Originally Posted by draconis
There is a a difference between needing permission and respecting boundries if my wife left over a friends house whenever she wanted to and it didn't matter what I said we'd be divorced.
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beachmoma26
I have to agree with what draconis said above.
Aslo, I really hate that "your my husband not my father" line. What does that mean anyway, that you will show your father respect but not your husband? That's what it comes down too, is respect for the person you share your life with now.
Your friends and family are right, in saying that you should do what ever you want to do, if you were single of if you want a divorce. When you are married however, it is my opinion that you do need to listen to and abide by each others rules.
Notice that I said, " each others" rules, if he doesn't listen to you then that's another story.
If there are no kids involved, I say do yourself and your husband a favor and divorce, then you can do whatever you want like your friends and family have told you to do.