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jwji1213 · 04-28-2008, 01:04 PM

we have been married for 7 years and together 12. we have 3 kids. The big thing for me is that my husband shows no love toward me. He can do it with our kids he can hug and kiss them but i can not tell you the last time we kissed. He tells me he loves me only when we fight about it or I cry over it. Sex is only on his terms when he wants. if i try he tells me no or he is tired. we don't even hold hands. I have tried talking to him about it but he tells me I am being needy or I want him to be somthing he is not. I guess I want to know am I being needy? or should we have these things in our marriage?

04-28-2008, 01:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
jwji1213 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1	husband shows no love we have been married for 7 years and together 12. we have 3 kids. The big thing for me is that my husband shows no love toward me. He can do it with our kids he can hug and kiss them but i can not tell you the last time we kissed. He tells me he loves me only when we fight about it or I cry over it. Sex is only on his terms when he wants. if i try he tells me no or he is tired. we don't even hold hands. I have tried talking to him about it but he tells me I am being needy or I want him to be somthing he is not. I guess I want to know am I being needy? or should we have these things in our marriage?