Originally Posted by lonesomegra
I feel that I would crumble easily as it is rare that any woman pays anything more than professional courtesy to me. Also because when I am very, very angry at my W this is normally the time I desire sex the most, so if I was hit on at that time I would be easy meat for a predator.
OK, please don't go there. I gave in once and nothing but very bad things have happened as a result. I ruined my relationship, my husband, and my rep with the few people that know. If you're angry at your wife, tell her you are. Get into some counseling, but do not welcome or invite something like this. It may seem like harmless fantasy now, but it's absolute hell...not just for you but for everyone involved, including your wife.