You might be interested in reading the letter that jinba, another member, recently sent to the OWH to alert him to an STD. It was very well-written.
Exposure Letter Written
And Iamaga, there is nothing "junior high" about telling someone they've been exposed to an STD. What's junior high is to ignore a serious health issue and hope that by some miracle they get treated. Chlamydia has no symptoms and renders women sterile. HPV can cause cancer, and if you have the cancer-causing strain you must be more closely monitored than the average woman. We don't even need to go into the realm of HIV. Herpes is manageable, but not entirely curable. This is how these diseases spread, because someone was too "junior high" to tell the truth.