-Hey Dawn sorry that your stressing, have you tried sitting down with him and just laying it all out there? When my wife and I first moved in together it was somewhat the same situation until that oneday.....She had it, she looked me in the eye and said "I am not your freakin mother" I had no idea that she was feeling the way she did, that was my eye opener
...and from that day forward I at least try and help out a little bit. I guess what Im saying is communication is key in this equation, if not he might think that is how it is supose to be. Hopefully he respects and loves you enough to want to be a better person for you, plus it will make your relationship that much stronger.
-Im sure your boyfriend is a great guy he just needs to be aware that just because he is in a relationship doesnt me he can just throw up his hands when it comes to the daily tasks at home. Good luck and I hope everything works out.
>One suggestion if I may pre-marriage counseling it helps out tremendously, plus it makes sure that you are both on the same page about all these issues.