thanks guys for your help!
i will try everything!
donny he does seem to be more stressed since he started his new job about 6months ago. i totally agree with everything you said!
energy i have a kid free night this weekend, so hopefully i will be able to get him in the mood and outta the bedroom!

we have to find our equal line thats for sure!
toffer i know i should stop doing it for him! but i enjoy it! even if he hasnt returned the favor for about 7 months! i dont mind if he doesnt give me oral just some sex would be good lol. i was thinking that it had something to do with my appearance, but i have lost weight, i also keep myself well maintained.
he came home last night and we had a massive talk about it all again..... hopefully i got though.... we are going to give it one more chance before we go to therapy. I will try everything i can think off to turn him on and hopefully one day soon i might get my 3 day a week lol.
thanks guys for your help!