Am I being really stupid here?
This is really embarrasing and I cant believe I'm discussing this with strangers...
Anyway, some of you may have read my other posts about my paranoia and recent problems, so this is just the latest worry for me really.
A few weeks ago, I dont know how, but the subject of sex toys came up in conversation with my wife. At the time, I said I quite liked the idea for us both, so she agreed and ordered one.
Anyway, it came the other day, and I had ideas in my head that since we were going out Friday night (and our son was staying over a friends) that it would be a good time. However, my wife mentioned that she'd already tried it out. I felt really let down and betrayed.
I metnioned that maybe we could get it out on Friday but she said she didnt know whether she wanted on Friday. She said I shouldnt assume things and assume its on just because we are going out for the night.
Am I being stupid? Am I really being jealous of a lump of plastic here?
In the past, my wife has said its different to real sex and not the same. However, as man, I dont understand this. Anyone care to explain in simple terms?
Also, my wife seems to have big issues with me planning ahead for things like sex. She seems to hate it when I take things for granted or so it seems.
Am I making a mistake her? Do women hate this sort of thing then?
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