Originally Posted by mr. blue
Spending time with someone new is great on many levels, but it can also mask your own issues and delay your growth towards standing on your own two feet - if thatís what you want.
PS: It always gets complicated
Everything in life is complicated...I do see your point, I think it requires a lot of awareness of where the person is at during their grief. Some people fall in love quickly, others take their time, I'm the latter, I don't fall hard.