demora

I agree with sweetp101. When sex is scheduled, it feels like a chore on a check list. If you get her all hot and bothered and then bring on the toy, she will love it and if you enjoy watching her in pleasure, you will enjoy it too.

Don't be jealous of the toy. She's not comparing the two of you and I would take a warm body over a cold toy any day of the week - as I'm sure she would. If this is her first toy, she was probably very curious about it and how it would feel. There's a book called "Toygasims" that is like a guide for how to make the most of toys.