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Originally Posted by demora
Not a good idea. This sounds like a you thing, not a her thing. You've said you have no reason to suspect she's having an affair. You need to find a way to deal with your feelings. My husband doesn't know all of my passwords, and if he asked I would probably give them to him. But if he was checking up on me, I would be pretty mad. I don't check up on him and I set his passwords for his accounts.
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Demora,
Think you're right... To be honest I do have 'problems' (depression etc) and I'm fairly sure that this is causing some of the feelings I'm getting (along with some of the meds I've switched to over the last few months).
To be fair, I did used to have access to it but I think I did overdo it a bit with checking. Also, I accused her of a few things which were blatantly false. She was not happy about this at the time.
She reminded me last night of a conversation we had a few weeks ago (in the pub so I cant remember it all!). At the time, we agreed for her to change the password because I agreed it was a bit weird after all with me checking up on her.
But, I see what you're getting at and I think my wife was the same. Initially, she had no problems with me knowing the passwords, but she didnt want me snooping and I did abuse the privilege a bit I suppose.