| | Re: Wife messing around while I was overseas - update
If I were you, I would kick her out the next time I hear honorable from her mouth...What is honorable about pursuing a married woman and cheating with her while he himself is married. If he is honorable, what is she? She even offered to have sex with him. Your wife still idolizes him and considers their love that was never meant to be. Good luck with repairing the marriage. She somehow considers this payback for your own indiscretions. There is no love left here.
Have you exposed her to the family? Maybe that is why she is in for R.