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Originally Posted by psychocandy
In the past, my wife has said its different to real sex and not the same. However, as man, I dont understand this. Anyone care to explain in simple terms?
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The main difference is that real sex is much better. Most women feel emotionally close ... just can't get that with a toy. IMO using a toy alone is like a guy masturbating to porn...satisfies the urge when real sex isn't an option...but combining real sex and the toy can be good also since many woman cannot orgasm internally, it can be a way to orgasm together.
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Originally Posted by psychocandy
Also, my wife seems to have big issues with me planning ahead for things like sex. She seems to hate it when I take things for granted or so it seems.
Am I making a mistake her? Do women hate this sort of thing then?
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I agree with the other post that pre-planned sex can sometimes feel like a chore...although if the average day you are loving (hugs/kisses/i love you) it wouldn't feel that way to me...we'd both be having the same thoughts and it should lead that way anyway. But to your point, I do think once you have kids, it may not be the most romantic thing but scheduling sex when you have a night alone just makes sense.
You could try something totally spontaneous...tell her you want to jump on the bed naked with her because you want to have a wild kid-free evening...you don't want sex, you just want to have some fun with her...get her to laugh and lighten up & see where things go.
ok strange idea
