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Old 05-18-2012, 12:35 PM   #188 (permalink)
Shaggy
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Default Re: Just found out my wife cheated

Why don't you get away by yourself for a couple of days to just think alone without her badgering you?

Remind yourself, it is ok to divorce her. She chose to give herself to the OM. She chose to use you to satisfy her sexual appetite and desire for him those days after her first hookup. Sorry, but you didn't have sex with her. She was using you without feeling or care. You were only a toy during that time.

Get away alone and at the end ask yourself if you really missed her during that time? Or could you imagine a new better partner without the history of betrayal beside you.

You wouldn't be ending the marriage, she already did that. You would be rejecting her offer to remarry her.
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