Amplexor

Trish

I wish there was more help I could offer. If you’ve looked at my posts in the past you’ll know I have some strong opinions about porn and the negative effects it can have on a relationship. I won’t go into my standard rant here other than to say if your husband truly loves and respects you he will work to stop this habit. I am not of the mind that it is an addiction. It may be difficult for him to stop but if it hurts you and your marriage it should stop.

When people are in such a confused state as you seem to be, it is hard to know what to say other than to find hope and strength in yourself, those around you and in God. Having a beautiful new child in your life is a wonderful thing. But a new baby brings stress, anxiety and sleeplessness. These things can exacerbate the other things in your life and things can get so difficult to get your arms around.

Obviously if your husband is this mean to you the two of you need to seek counsel to see what some of the underlying issues might be. He has no right to speak to you in this manner and has shown a severe lack of empathy for you. He is unwilling to communicate with you so the two of you may need some help from someone trained to help people in difficult relationships. If he resists then seek counsel on your own.

You are in the right place here. At least to start. If nothing else then to see there are others out here who are in troubled marriages trying to regain what they had. Also to try and offer advice based on their own experiences. And it gives you a chance to vent which we all need on occasion. Please offer us more information if you are comfortable to see if we can find some small advice that helps. In the meantime, love that little one and be the best mother you can be. Have faith in yourself and continue to look for help and support in all of this. Bless

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Amp

Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.