Originally Posted by Dollystanford
I'm not jumping back in feet first
but if something comes along then I'm game, I certainly won't be looking for anything serious
I've totally emotionally detached from my marriage and consider myself single though
That's how I feel as well, I'm very detached from my marriage, and I actually feel ok with being single, but I was in a miserable marriage in the last year. We were both miserable, I think that's why it was so easy for him to find someone and become attached, although that's not me, I feel like I do need to go through whatever is necessary to move forward, and to enjoy someone's company certainly helps things move faster.
It's confusing though, on one hand I want to move forward, just forget about my whole marriage, but on the other hand I do have things I have to celebrate, that it wasn't all bad, I think it's a healthy way to look at it, and it takes away the bitterness.