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Originally Posted by mommy22
Can i also say.. carmaenforcer, people come here to hear other views, and get help, sometimes just to talk things out, to help them understand their problems better.. it's great that you participate, but while we can and should disagree with viewpoints, we shouldn't be judging people.
In your post above you made remarks about this man's wife saying she rations out sex and he doesn't have a say.. but i can't see any such thing in his post?
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I was wondering the same thing. However, I think that was directed towards me. I need to clarify my point of view. I was in no way suggesting that marriage is all about a woman's needs. I was simply trying to give a man insight into a woman's thinking. I think it can be helpful to hear from the opposite sex on things like this because men and women can have a lot of trouble understanding each other's needs. But, by all means, marriage is a two way street. I just know that my husband and I have decided that we need to go back to selflessly giving to one another. I think when both partners are always thinking about the other's needs it can be amazing. It has to be sacrificial in order for it to work-- just as we give sacrificially to our children without expectations.