justabovewater

because he left the marriage? I get the feeling that he's resenting me for his decision to leave the marriage. We've gotten along pretty well during the last year of separation, but just this past week I get the feeling that he's pulling away; not coming over to see his kids as often, not talking to me as often, etc. I asked him today what was up and he was very short with me. What's up with that. I want to just say, "Are you mad at me because of a decision you chose to make? He chose to leave, he chose to go live with a relative and I think he's now mad at me because his life isn't what he thought it would be post separation. I wish he'd just get over this whole phase he's going through so that he can be his normal self again...whatever that is. He seems so touchy since he left. His whole personallity has changed. He's more angry where he used to be very easy going. I just don't know how to read him anymore.